At times, it gets very difficult to let go of someone you imagined yours forever with. Their memories might haunt you all day, all night but sometimes it gets necessary to make decisions for your personal growth.
Conveying the reason for the breakup through a letter could be tough because your words might unknowingly be hard on someone who’s reading it.
It could also be the best way to convey your reason or your message for the breakup if you want to avoid talking to him/her in person. However, you should always make sure that your reason should clearly be understood by the person you’re conveying it to.
Do’s and Don’ts while writing a breakup letter:
- Make sure that your reason is conveyed properly.
- Write the letter using simple English which could be understood easily
- Do not blame things on the person even if there are any.
- End it most politely.
Breakup Letter for Someone who Cheated on you.[Name]
It wasn’t easy for me to picture you with somebody else. I could never imagine that you would be able to do it so easily. After this, I can confirm that you weren’t completely happy being with me.
What about all those promises what you made? I will never be able to acknowledge the fact that you chose to be with somebody else while you dreamt of spending your whole life with me.
I believe, whatever happens, happens for a reason and I think you were a big lesson in my life.
You treated me like an option, little did I realize that it was going to turn out to be one of those faded connections.
I hope you’ll stay happy as you got to meet someone who could perfectly understand you and support you throughout your life. I hope it’d sail long.
Not as a special someone, but as a friend, I would like to advise you not to do this to anybody else in your entire life. Also, I would be glad if you’d help me move on by not messaging me or looking up to me anymore and be true to the person you’re presently in love with.
No strings attached.
Breakup Letter to End a Toxic Relationship.
I remember those beautiful days when you made me feel special. Was it just because it was all new?
Tell me, after this how can I even trust you? You told me I’m a princess but I don’t think any Princess deserves to be treated in this way.
I have been wanting to say this to you for months now but I thought I would be able to manage it. But not anymore, so let me break the ice between us. Honestly, I don’t like the way you’re treating me for a few months now.
Remember how everything of mine mattered you so much back then? Where is all that love gone? I think it would be better if you watched your Tone/pitch while talking to me.
Being in love doesn’t mean we keep each other in a cage. I need my freedom to talk to people and socialize. I cannot restrict myself just because you want me to. I am tired of you being mad at me all the time for the smallest things.
I hope you would understand that before. You love me and I love you, no doubt but this is becoming toxic as the days pass by and I’m sorry to bring it up to you but I think it’s not my cup of tea anymore.
It felt good while it lasted.
Breakup Letter for Someone who had Trust Issues
People say that trust is the most powerful virtue between two people who are in love.
For any relationship to grow and stay forever the one thing that matters the most is the trust. While we have it, there is nothing in this world that would do us apart.
Having said that to you many times I see no change in you. I think I should stop beating around the bush just to maintain this bond that we share and this relationship that we have.
I am tired of giving you explanations for everything. What I do, where I am, Who do I talk to, etc etc. Sometimes I feel that if I’d do something before asking you That’d be the end of our relationship.
I am so done with staying under the rock with the fact that you’re going to change. I’ve given you enough time and I see no progress.
I think now is the time that we put an end to this. I hope this had been like a lesson to you that you could lose the most important people from your life because you did not trust them enough.
I hope that you’ll be able to move on.
Breakup Letter to End a Relationship because it wouldn’t just Work Out in Future
To my dearest,
As I write this, tears already roll down my cheeks. I am not able to process this all of a sudden. Sometimes, we need to make decisions just to make sure that we both stay happy in the future and for our entire lives.
I think this wouldn’t just work out in our future. We both are from different caste and you know how much of a mainstream That is to both of our parents. This could be the silliest reason for us to fall Apart but the involvement of our families is going to play a huge role in our Togetherness. I believe that if we are in a relationship to breakup
Someday in the future, then why are we in one anyway?
It would be better that we stay true to our parents and our families because Somewhere we both know that we cannot make any decisions against our Dear ones. Hence, it would be better if we try to get over each other from now on.
My love for you will never be faded but these decisions need to be taken. It is going to be tough for both of us, but we need to do it.
I wish you all the luck and happiness in your future. Take care.
Breakup Letter to put a Full Stop to the Relationship where you weren’t being your True Self
I know we have promised each other that we are going to be the same as we were before and this relationship wouldn’t change ourselves. But sometimes it so happens that, when you’re in love with someone you tend to forget everything about yourself and try to spend as much time as possible with your partner. We forget that we have our own lives too.
We’re both in such a position in our career that we need to take up our responsibilities. It’s high time for both of us to realize things and work hard to pursue our dreams. This relationship had made me realize how selfless I have been. I don’t spend time with my family and friends anymore. I’m not interested to write anything these days and talk to you all day long.
All these could be special but when you think of it, it will make you realize that even you weren’t the real you while we were in love too. It will be great for both of us if we leave this here and start working on ourselves.
With lots of love.
Breakup Letter to End a Relationship which had Difference in Opinion
When two people are in love they do not tend to realize each other’s likes and dislikes. They still try to sail along with all the problems they have because they are so much into each other that they tend to ignore the other problems that they might face. We are going through a similar thing.
Lately, I just feel that our vibes don’t match because our choices differ in everything. Because of this, I don’t want you to be forcibly liking something because of me and I don’t want to end up in any such situations.
To maintain the bond, we both need to understand each other’s preferences, likes, and choices. I am just trying to say that it’s a lot easier being with someone who has the same likes and dislikes as you do. It gets a lot more beautiful when you both can discuss a particular show all day long because you both love that show.
Many such instances cannot be explained in words. Even if we try working this out, it somehow wouldn’t.
I hope you will be able to understand.
I just want to let you know that, whenever you need me I’ll always there for you.